UCA WAVES Awarded Federal Grant for Mental Health First Aid Training

The United Chinese Americans (UCA) is pleased to announce that our UCA WAVES (Wellness, Advocacy, Voices, Education, Support) program recently received a four-year training grant (H79SM084431), Mental Health First Aid in Chinese Americans (MHFA-CA), from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), an agency under the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS). This is a collaborative effort with North Carolina Central University (NCCU). We are extremely grateful for the dedication and hard work of UCA WAVES team members who have continued the effort to combat the mental health crises in Asian American communities.

Love Doesn’t Need to Kill Each Other—Five Expressions of Love”–How to choose a suitable expression?

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Case 1

妻子逼着丈夫每天早上喝牛奶,使得不爱喝牛奶的丈夫痛苦不堪。

这妻子是在表达爱吗?

A wife forced her husband to drink milk every morning, which made the husband (who didn’t like milk) miserable. Is this wife expressing her love?

如果把案例中夫妻关系换成亲子关系,“被逼着喝牛奶”换成“去上父母认为必须上的补习班/课外活动”、“必须达到的成绩单”、“应该考上的大学”……这样的场景我们不是很熟悉吗?

If the husband-wife relationship in the case is replaced by a parent-child relationship, “being forced to drink milk” is replaced by “going to the cram school/extracurricular activities “, “report card grades that must be achieved”, “Universities that should be admitted to”… Aren’t we familiar with such scenes?

Case 2

The mother was very angry because the child missed a class, thinking that the child would make up the work for it quickly, but when she came home, she found that the child not only failed to make up the homework, but also made a mess in the kitchen. But the child just wanted to make a bowl of “ugly” noodles for the mother. The mother immediately became furious and scolded the child.  As a result, the child ignored his mother for a week.

Is this mother wrong for caring about her child’s homework?

古人云:甲之熊掌,乙之砒霜。当我们竭尽全力去“爱”家人的时候,我们有没有想过,我们给出的“爱”,在对方眼中可能是枷锁,是命令,是控制,甚至是威胁,是毒药……

到底要用什么方式去“爱”才是最适合的呢?

The ancients said: ” One man’s meat is another man’s poison. ” When we try our best to “love” our family members, have we ever thought that the “love” we give may be a shackle, an order, a control, or even a threat, or a poison in the eyes of the other party…

What is the most suitable way to “love”?

著名心理咨询师方琦老师受南北卡华人社区服务中心(简称CCACC)和美国华人联合会精神健康项目组(简称UCA Waves)的特别邀请,从10月27日开始,为大家开设了一个《相爱不必相杀——爱的五种表达》的系列线上课程,用五节课来“破解爱的密码”。

The well-known psychological counselor Mrs. Fang Qi was specially invited by the North-South Carolina Chinese Community Service Center (CCACC) and the Mental Health Project Team of the United Chinese American Association (UCA Waves). Starting from October 27th, a series of online courses “Love does not have to kill each other – five expressions of love” have been opened for everyone, using five lessons to “crack the code of love”.

欢迎学员们扫码加入以下的”心理成长自助营“,分享自己的实践过程和反馈,共同成长。

Students are welcome to scan the QR code to join the following “Psychological Growth Self-help Camp”, share their practice process and feedback, and grow together.

方老师建议大家在听完本期视频后,完成以上作业,发到“心理成长自助营”群里,互相监督鼓励,这样可以帮助大家更好地理解课程的内容,把知识转化为能力。

第一节课  暖心的言语 

The First Lesson -Warm Words

 On October 27th (10.27.2022)

10月27日的第一节课,方老师带领大家一起通过分析案例探讨了爱的第一种表达——暖心的言语

In the first class on October 27, Mrs. Fang led everyone to discuss the first expression of love—”heart-warming words” through case analysis.

拥有“爱商”,让生活更幸福-《相爱不必相杀—爱的五种表达》公益讲座第一课

Public Welfare Lecture Lesson 1

Have a “love quotient” to make life happier – “Love does not need to kill each other – five expressions of love”

第二节课  用心的陪伴

The Second Lesson- Accompanied By Heart 

On November 3rd (11.03.2022)

在第二期的课堂上,方老师和学员们一起探讨了爱的第二种表达——用心的陪伴

In the second class, Mrs. Fang and the students discussed the second expression of love – “Accompanied by heart”.

解答了什么才是“高质量的陪伴”,正确和错误的案例分析,以及如何在生活中去实践等等问题。

She explained what is “high-quality companionship”, right and wrong case studies, and how to practice in life and so on.

【视频2】《相爱不必相杀——爱的五种表达》–何为高质量的陪伴?

[Video 2] “Love doesn’t have to kill each other – five expressions of love” – ​​what is high-quality companionship?

第三节课 贴心的行动

The Lesson 3rd Lesson” Intimate Actions 

ON November 10th (11.10.2022)

在第三期的课堂上,方老师首先解答了在上一周里学员们提出的问题(如下图)。

In the third class, Mrs. Fang first answered the questions raised by the students in the previous week (as shown in the picture below).

然后,以本文开头的那两个场景为案例,方老师深入分析了如何选择“正确的爱的表达方式”——

Then, taking the two scenes at the beginning of this article as examples, Mrs. Fang deeply analyzed how to choose the “correct way of expressing love”

爱TA,就要用TA喜欢的方式去爱,而不是你喜欢或者你以为TA喜欢的方式,否则就会南辕北辙,爱反而成了伤害。

To love a person, you must love in the way they like, not in the way you like or think they like, otherwise it will be the opposite, and love will become hurtful instead.

方老师建议大家在听完本期视频后,完成以上作业,发到“心理成长自助营”群里,互相监督鼓励,这样可以帮助大家更好地理解课程的内容,把知识转化为能力。

Mrs. Fang suggested that after listening to this video, you should complete the above assignments and send them to the “Psychological Growth Self-help Camp” group to supervise and encourage each other. This will help you better understand the content of the course and transform knowledge into abilities.

第四节课

The 4th Lesson

On November 17 (11.17.2022)

本周四(11月17日),请继续关注UCA WAVES-CCACC 公益心理系列讲座-《相爱不必相杀——爱的五种表达》第四课 ,一起学会爱,懂得爱。

This Thursday (November 17), please continue to pay attention to the fourth lesson of UCA WAVES-CCACC Public Welfare Psychology Lecture Series – “Love Doesn’t Need to Kill Each Other—Five Expressions of Love” to learn and understand love together.

方老师将用自己从业二十多年的真实案例,使大家看到亲密关系里最真实的对方和自我,看到人性最深切的渴望和需求。通过觉察和感悟,摆脱情感的自动巡航,走出爱的困境——让自己、让爱人、让孩子、让父母,让亲密关系里的每一个人,都感到温暖,得到陪伴。

Mrs. Fang will use her real cases obtained by more than 20 years of practice, so that everyone can be the most authentic partner and self in close relationships, and see the deepest wants and needs of human nature. Through awareness and perception, get rid of auto-pilot emotions, and get out of the dilemma of love—let yourself, those you love, your children, your parents, and everyone in close relationships feel warm and receive companionship.

时间:10月27 – 12月1日  每周四晚

美东时间 8:00pm – 9:00pm

Zoom:  82517431748

Time: October 27th – December 1st every Thursday evening

8:00pm – 9:00pm ET

Zoom: 82517431748

AAPI Trauma Healing Program

Join us for a 90-minute webinar on inter-generational trauma hosted by Yale School of Medicine’s CHATogether program. The webinar will be taking place on Wednesday, November 2nd from 6:00-7:30 PM EST on Zoom. Don’t miss this amazing opportunity for healing!

Full WAVES Program Book

Full WAVES Program Book!

To view our full WAVES program book with more details, and the flyers included in this email, scan the QR code or click here.

We hope to see you there!

3rd Chinese American Convention | 1st National Youth Convention

July 14-16

Omni Hotel, Washington D.C.

Community Showcase

There will also be a Community Showcase organized by the Youth Convention and WAVES! This session will be available Friday, June 15 11:30am – 12:30pm, 3:15 – 4:30pm, and Saturday, June 16 1:00 – 1:30pm. 

Various national and local nonprofit organizations will be present. Topics include mental health education, trilingual services, innovative technology and apps, authors, University AAPI centers and researchers, advocacy groups, funding agencies and more. Come visit their booths!

Featured Speakers

Robert Wood Johnson Foundation (RWJF) Clinical Scholars: Breaking Silence Team

(from left) Dr. Juliana Chen, Dr. Weiyang Xie, Dr. Justin Chen, & Lily Chen

Juliana H. Chen, MD, is a child and adolescent psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital (MGH) and Newton-Wellesley Hospital (NWH), and a clinical instructor at Harvard Medical School. She serves as Associate Director of the MGH Center for Cross-Cultural Student Emotional Wellness and has special interest in supporting Asian American students and families.

Weiyang Xie, PhD, is an Assistant Professor of Clinical Psychology at the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Illinois Chicago. She worked as the Clinical Psychologist & served the Chair of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Committee of the Health & Wellness Unit at the University of Notre Dame, IN. She also serves as a consulting psychologist for UCA WAVES Program for Asian American youth mental health.

Justin A. Chen, MD, MPH, is Medical Director of Ambulatory Psychiatry Services and Co-Director of Primary Care Psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital (MGH). He is also the Director of the MGH Center for Cross-Cultural Student Emotional Wellness and the Co-Director of Medical Student Education in Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He specializes in the treatment of adult mood and anxiety disorders and is dedicated to teaching and mentorship.

Jian (Lily) Chen, MA, RN, CNE, is a lecturer at North Carolina Central University Department of Nursing. She is a certified Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) instructor. Lily is a community organizer and has published multiple OpEds that have been featured in major US news outlets. Lily is UCA WAVES Project director, Senior advisor and previous Executive Director of UCA, and the founding President for UCA Illinois Chapter.

The Clinical Scholars Breaking Silences Team will be hosting our session Breaking Silences: Youth Mental Health & Parent-Child Communication. This parent education session will focus on improving parent-child communication, as well as supporting youth and their mental health.

Click here for more info about the Clinical Scholars and their project!

Daphne Kwok: WAVES Guest Speaker

Daphne Kwok is the Vice President of Diversity, Equity & Inclusion, Asian American & Pacific Audience Strategy at American Association of Retired Persons (AARP). 

A 1984 graduate of Wesleyan University, Ms. Kwok is the first Asian American to serve on its Board of Trustees.

Previously, Ms. Kwok was the Executive Director of Asians & Pacific Islanders with Disabilities of California. She was also the Executive Director of the Angel Island Immigration Station Foundation in San Francisco. For 11 years, she was the Executive Director of the Organization of Chinese Americans (OCA), a national membership based civil rights organization. She was the first elected Chair of the National Council of Asian Pacific Americans, a network of national APA organizations. She also served as Executive Director of the Asian Pacific American Institute for Congressional Studies. 

Ms. Kwok was appointed by President Barack Obama in 2010 to chair his Advisory Commission on Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders. The Commission served as the “eyes and ears” of the community advising the President and the federal government about the issues impacting the AAPI community.  
 
Ms. Kwok will be one of the panelist in our Asian American and Pacific Islander (AAPI) Mental Health & Advocacy session. This session will exploring current mental health disparities in AAPI communities, such as the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic.

“Silent War” Movie Screening & Discussion

Join us on Friday, July 15, at 7:00 pm EST for an exclusive preview of the new documentary film, “Silent War: Asian American Reckonings with Mental Health” by award-winning filmmaker Changfu Chang! 

In this documentary, members of the community share their own battles with mental illness. Their stories highlight the unique challenges that Asian Americans face and the unspoken toll it has taken. 

Visit http://silentwarmovie.com for more info.

Following this screening, we’ll also have a panel discussion with Changfu, the film’s interviewees, and psychiatrist Dr. Justin Chen.

UCA 2022 Convention Updates – WAVES Mental Health Track!

Register today for UCA’s 3rd Chinese American Convention and our 1st National Youth Convention! 

The convention is being held at Omni Hotel in Washington, D.C. from July 14th-16th. Please click here for registration, hotel bookings, and programming information.

UCA WAVES will be presenting a mental health track with four breakout sessions, a community showcase, AND a movie screening!

To view our full WAVES program click here.

Breakout Sessions

Our mental health track will feature four unique breakout sessions exploring a variety of current mental health topics.
? Breaking Silences: Youth Mental Health & Parent-Child Communication– Parent education session on improving parent-child communication and supporting youth mental health.
? Asian American and Pacific Islander (AAPI) Mental Health & Advocacy – Exploring current mental health disparities in AAPI communities. 
? Demystifying Medications – Educational session on purpose and importance of psychiatric medications in mental health.
? LGBTQ+ Workshop: What Coming Out Means – Exploring queer identities and mental health challenges, and howto be an active ally.